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Loneliness affects how the brain operates
Loneliness is bad for your health
Loneliness linked to high blood pressure in aging adults
Cold and lonely: Does social exclusion literally feel cold?
Adults who go to bed lonely get stress hormone boost next morning
Loneliness associated with increased risk of Alzheimers disease
For many people being alone is a perfectly happy life choice that suits their personality well.
For others however, this is most definitely not the case and loneliness is a living hell. The sense of isolation and the longing for companionship is overwhelming and can lead to great unhappiness and depression.
When your cringing shyness means that even the thought of having to communicate with someone is an absolute ordeal, your life becomes a limiting battle. The mere thought of having to speak to a stranger fills you with dread and of course any form of social life is really out of the question. After all, how could you possibly attend a social gathering or go to a party, or meet people after work for a drink? It would be so stressful that you would have to decline any invitation. It does not take long for invitations to stop; after all, nobody likes rejection, do they?
Sometimes, what comes across to others is not your shyness, rather the sense of you being withdrawn or distant, maybe even completely unapproachable or ‘cold’. It’s a very effective defence mechanism but does it actually work for you?
Though others may be aware of your shyness, few realise the level of internal conflict that it causes. You can feel intense frustration, self loathing, internalised anger and depression and often your ‘self talk’ is negative and harsh. ‘Next time…’ is often used as the conscious motivator to help alleviate the stress, but next time never comes, and in your life, shyness can lead to a back catalogue of many ‘next times’.
Self confidence can play a big part in your sense of loneliness. Your self esteem can be so low that you can’t even imagine a reason why anyone would want anything to do with you. You project our own reality and perhaps then it’s no surprise that no one ever gets close enough to see the 'real you'.
Why would they, when all the signals you send out, however unintentionally, indicate ‘do not disturb’.
Sometimes past hurts….hurt. You can be so wounded by relationships, friendships, events and actions that have gone badly wrong, that you promise yourself that you will never let anyone close to you ever again. ‘No one is ever going to hurt me again’.
Ultimately though, it is you who suffers when you deny yourself the opportunity of finding happiness. Why do you continue to allow your past to impact upon your present and future happiness?
Perhaps it’s a matter of trust, or maybe past hurts have left a bitter taste. But does it always have to stay this way?
Desperate times, call for desperate measures. At times you can feel so lonely that you come across to others as ‘desperate’ – a trait described by many as a big ‘turn off’. Loneliness and isolation, the fear of not having anyone, has driven you to actions and behaviours that are totally out of character and can be detrimental to your wellbeing.
Even when you find someone, however unsuitable they may be, you try to constantly please them. This can create an unbalanced relationship where one person is dominant. This in itself can raise further issues, from feelings of panic and insecurity that they might leave at any moment, to a sense of subservience where you tolerate actions and behaviours that you may not tolerate with others.
The sense of loneliness, coupled with feelings of devalued self worth and a sense of desperation can leave you feeling miserable, isolated and at times physically, emotionally and psychologically seriously abused.
When the one you love dies the sense of loss can be almost unbearable. Loss can drive the most powerful sense of isolation as you believe that what you had was irreplaceable. But does the loss of someone dear to you have to condemn you to a life of isolation and loneliness?
Is it possible to remember your lost love but still live your life to the full? Can you be free from feelings of guilt and betrayal when you find someone new?
Some parents can’t wait for their children to grow up and move away. A house free from mess! No more being the family taxi, quiet evenings together, a sense of space and freedom, peace and quiet after all those years!
But someone else’s vision of heaven can be your nightmare. The fear of your children leaving can fill you with dread. What will you do? Suddenly, your role is redundant and you are of no use any more. And if yours is an empty marriage or you are a single parent, the sense of loneliness could be greater still; an empty house with you left to pick up the pieces of a life where for the first time in years you have to put yourself first - a frightening thought.
At The Naked Gene Juggler, we believe that when you free yourself from the ache of loneliness, you can step into a world of more choices, greater freedoms and with more opportunity to live the kind of life that you want.
Break free from the limiting prison of solitary confinement and enjoy your life, free to be ... you!
• Free yourself from your sense of loneliness and fear of isolation
• Break free from the prison of shyness
• Discover your self confidence, self esteem and self worth
• Break down the limiting barriers that keep you isolated and lonely
• Resolve your feelings of past hurt and mistrust
• Stop trying too hard …
• Discover how popular you can be
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