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For some people the relationship with their body is so extreme that all they feel for it is complete and utter disgust.
Is this how you describe your body? - A relationship filled with hate, anger and disgust. You can’t stand to look at ‘it’ and you have a self loathing that drives you to feelings of utter revulsion. Do you over-eat, or self harm, or hide away so that others don’t see you?
Do you feel that in some way your body is so vile you could never show it to someone else? Does the thought of intimate relationships terrify you; "how can I ever get undressed in front of someone else?" Are you afraid that they will laugh, that you will "die of embarrassment"?
Does the sheer terror of being ridiculed make even the merest thought of a relationship seem like a nightmare?
At times do you feel very isolated, terrified that people see your weakness, that they will spot your vulnerability and hurt you. You feel so exposed to your deepest fears and so completely powerless. All you see ahead of you is a life of loneliness, a life of being by yourself.
There seems to be so much pressure at the moment on how you look; almost an obsession with ‘looking good’. More than ever, society seems to judge you by how you look. And If you don’t fit the body beautiful image? Then somehow you are imperfect, flawed and undesirable.
The constant pressure of the media can have profound effects upon your body image; too fat, too thin, breasts that need to be bigger or smaller, thighs are too fat, crows feet, stretch marks, ‘six packs’, its endless. It is often the case that your external appearance becomes the focus for how you feel about yourself; affecting your self esteem, influencing the decisions you make, the relationships you have and the quality of your life.
Were you always self conscious of your body? Did you feel that from an early age ‘this bit’, or ‘that bit’ has been the wrong size or shape? Were you picked on in school, or felt self conscious when you did not develop as quickly as others and were ignored? Is it your nose, or your ‘fat thighs’ that you are conscious of? Perhaps ageing or having children has changed your body shape so much that you cannot recognise the ‘real you’ anymore.
Sometimes the need to change seems overwhelming. Is it the case that looking at yourself in the mirror has become so difficult and unacceptable that the only choice you see is to have the "bits" altered by surgery. Have you considered a "boob job" or a "tummy tuck", or perhaps a bit of "body redefinition"?
So many of your hopes and dreams are invested in the surgery; ‘When my breasts are bigger I’ll feel more feminine’, "when I have my tummy-tuck"…. ". When I’m thinner…" All your dreams become pinned on changing the parts of you that hold you back, the parts that have become the focus of your fears, insecurity and your lack of confidence.
You have a choice, there is an alternative path. What if you can resolve the issues that underpin your need for surgery?
It is often these underlying issues that drive you to seek surgery in the first place.
If you could resolve your feelings about past negative memories and experiences, clear your feelings of self doubt, raise your self esteem, boost your inner confidence and create a sense of inner strength and security:
Cosmetic surgery does indeed work for some people. It is an industry that has grown to satisfy a need felt in many people and it does help change lives. But is it the right thing for you?
• Is cosmetic surgery going to be little more than a sticking plaster over the real issues in you life?
• Is surgery really going to help you feel better about yourself - is it your body you want to change, or is it something inside that needs changing?
• Why do so many people go back and have more surgery – how many "wrong bits" need to be "fixed" to "fix" you?
No matter how hard you try and keep the effects of ageing at bay, you cannot. You buy the creams, the lotions, have the treatments – you’ve even considered a face lift. Yet every day you look in the mirror and your see your body betraying you. You remember how you used to feel; confident and self assured and now you feel "old". Facing the world at times feels like a constant battle of putting on a mask.
You hate it when people seem to "see you as your body", judging you by how you look, not seeing the "real you". Some people talk of "ageing gracefully", but for you this is a nonsense, all you see are the tell-tale lines of age and you find it depressing. You feel your confidence draining away, yet you don’t want to be one of those people that seem to have "given up".
But at times that is exactly what you feel like doing – you are tired of having to conform to idealised standards of beauty, when you know it is being young at heart that matters to you.
But does life have to be a constant battle with ageing?
Can you have a happy and rewarding life without constantly feeling your age? Often to move forwards in life you have to resolve the issues with the person in the mirror and find the answers that enable you to be accepting of the person who looks back.
To do otherwise, relegates you to a life of half looking, of caught reflections and sideways glances; of living in the past and only being able to say "when I was young…"
Facial disfigurement can seem the cruellest of blows. Perhaps it is a prominent birthmark or maybe you had an accident or adult acne? Maybe it’s Lupus, or something else that you have had to live with all your life, but what ever it is, the effects run deeper than the marks upon your face. You are judged by your face, and a lifetime of looks, of comments; both said and unsaid, has left your emotionally scarred and disfigured. At times you cannot stand to look in the mirror and you wear your Concealer as a mask to protect you from the world. But it is not the only mask.
There is a second mask; a tougher mask that hides your feelings that you have had to develop to protect the inner you. All the comments you have endured, the jibes, the cruel words, the unkind actions of those who judge you by how you look. The bullying, the isolation that you have endured have been swallowed and you have become very good at hiding your feelings.
You bury them deep and though you say to yourself it does not hurt, deep down inside you feel yourself being torn apart. Why can’t they see the real me? Why is it always about my face? No one will ever want me…
At times you feel rejected, other times you feel yourself withdraw and it is the feelings and emotions, more than anything else that makes life impossible.
You had to find your way of living with the outside mask; with the looks and the comments, the judgements and the attitudes. It has been difficult. Even now, at times it is a struggle. But it’s the inner mask that is doing the damage, the inner mask that hurts. Behind it you feel yourself, the ‘real you’ and it hurts beyond all reason. At times you feel you cannot take any more; another day like today and you’ll break…

At The Naked Gene Juggler, we are experts in helping you with a range of body image issues as diverse as your lack of confidence in forming
intimate relationships to facial scaring, Lupus and Cancer.
Let the critic in the mirror become your new best friend.
• Change your destructive relationship with your body
• Liberate yourself from the prison of your self loathing
• Take back control, regain your confidence and self esteem
• Create a better body image without the Surgeon’s knife
• Be proud of your age and your looks and rediscover your zest and vitality for life
• Heal the deeper emotional scars and let your inner beauty shine through
• Live your life to its full potential and open your life to greater opportunity and more choices
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