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Sometimes it seemed that those around you cared more for your academic success than they cared for you. At times you felt as if you are invisible – all they saw were your results. ‘You’ve got to do well’; ‘school was the best years of my life’, they would say.
But in your case, a statement simply untrue. They did not have to put up with the bullying, the abuse, the violence, all the daily rubbish that you had to go through.
You dreaded going to school as every day was a living hell and on top of all that you had to deal with, you had to somehow swallow your feelings, deal with your hurt, anger and the sense of isolation and still do well and carry on like nothing had happened.
No one saw you - the real you and it tore you apart and it still hurts. You didn’t eat, didn't sleep and often you felt depressed and lonely. Sometimes you would self harm and you felt like you want to end it all, that life was not worth living and suicide was the only way out. No one and nothing could reach you and you actively isolated yourself from those around you as they did not understand.
It felt as if a part of you was missing - and it still does. You don’t know which part, but you know that a part is – lost somewhere and you could almost describe the feeling as one of mourning, of grieving for the ‘lost you’. You are not alone in your thoughts and your feelings.
Many adults carry throughout their lives the hugely damaging negative memories, emotions and traumas of their school years.
For you, school became the defining event that determined how you feel about yourself, colouring every aspect of your life. The experiences of school form the backdrop that define your relationships, friendships and career success. The effects are both subtle and at times glaringly obvious with repercussions that have lasted a lifetime.
Even as an adult the mere thought of learning something new is traumatic. The thought of picking up a book and opening a page fills you with fear and dread. It is as if you never left school behind. All the memories come flooding back and with them the overwhelming thought that learning is not for you – that it can never be anything other than a negative, miserable and destructive experience. You see your future limited by the knowledge that you can only go so far – to the point where you need to study more and that thought is almost unbearable.
Perhaps you were told from an early age that you have to be the best – the top of the class in everything. Regardless of anything else, that was your priority. Everything took second place to your schooling. Even fun had an academic or win focus - books always had to be ‘educational’, sports always had to have a ‘competitive edge’. Nothing could be done purely for pleasure - just for the fun of it and you were not allowed to follow your passion for fear of it interfering with you academic success.
Now you’ve had enough. The thought of another exam, yet more studying – another certificate, fills you with dread. You just want to be you - be yourself, do your thing, be free to discover who you are and what you like and reject all the pressure, the nagging and the constant demands for success. Yet at the same time you do want to be successful and have a great career and the things that go with it and you don’t want to hurt your family. But right now, you’re so sick of the whole ‘learning thing’ that you want to walk away and never take another exam ever again.
Why is it that in most of the subjects you like, you get great result, yet the ones you don’t like you really struggle with? You want to do well, but no matter how much you read and re-read, you just cannot make sense of the pages. It is as if the words have no meaning to you, they make no sense.
Every time you get to the end of the page and you still don't understand it, you feel yourself becoming more frustrated, more annoyed with yourself. You keep reading and re-reading, yet nothing seems to sink in. Are you stupid? Are you thick? Some people describe it as a wall – every time you even think about the subject the wall goes up in front of you and you feel that you’ll never understand.
But it is often the case that the frustrations, the anger you feel towards the subject itself, your inability to understand it and even your feelings towards the teachers who thought that you must be stupid and treated you like you were, all contribute to your inability to learn now. You want to be a success, but every time you thing about learning, if feels like you are battling yourself. Your past negative experiences, thoughts and memories create a minefield and every time you think that things are improving, you quickly come to realise that the war is getting worse.

At The Naked Gene Juggler, we are experts at helping you remove the impact that your negative academic experience has had upon the quality of your life.
We can help you liberate yourself from the limitations that it has created for you in many aspect of your life – from decision making and learning new things, to self worth and relationships.
Live your life on your terms. Why be the failure they predicted, when you CAN be the success you always wanted to be.
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